Carmine

Opportunities are all over us, just open your eyes and you will see. Listen to what people are saying to you. If you are watching a movie or listen to music there could be hidden messages for you. Why? Because I know I have experienced that several of times. Have you found the times where you thought what a coincidence that this thing just happened now?

You were thinking of a friend that you have not seen or heard for a long time and they call you the same day or the day after? What is it? Synchronicity on a higher level.

Try to use that event and be aware. If it happened once it can happen over and over again. Thats also called to be in a flow. Like the author Mihaly Csikszentmihaly wrote about. Sportsmen talks about a good timing. Business describes it as to be in a right place at the right time. Some people, ignorant ones call it luck. The fun part is like with training that the more you train the more luck you will have. It is that with life.

If you want something desperately just think about it. Act to it, move forward to it. Read about it. Associate with people that have that skill you like to have. Pretend that you are in a theatre. You are the author, director and you have all the roles in your play. If you do not like one character you can always change that to another more pleasant one. Do you want to play the hero or are you the victim? Do you want to play the policeman or the burglar? Why dont you try them all? Then you can choose which one you like most.

What is the point by doing this? I think we live or lives like a role play every day. If we can do a draft on the days we can have a look and see if there is any kind of synchronicity in it. I also believe that if we are more aware what is happening in our lives we can be more in charge of things that we believe we can not do anything about. Make more awareness in your life. When you are doing business how can we you this skill? Most of all selecting good from less good co workers. We want to attract people we like and that we can be working easily with. Learn to listen what they say, between the lines.

How are they moving? In staccato or smoothly? Are they stress or calm? All this things tells you what you have to deal with as co workers. Yes it is good to have a mixture of characters. Try not to make the group too different. Look for people that are walking the talk as the indian would quote it. Listen if they brag about how many people they know compare to how many they would contact.

That is a huge difference. Keep in mind it is a numbers game. The person who contacts most people will eventually win.

Out of quantities comes quality. So the more people you contact and the more you listen between the lines the larger net work you will have. The happier you will become the happier the group will be. So go out and get them. With a happy face, enthusiasm and a good business.

MarieLouise is working as a personal trainer and a life coach. She is also very skilled as a networker with several years experience from different MLM companies. http://marielouisefalk.blogspot.com